5 Considerations for Gestational Surrogacy Discussions

Surrogacy Journey

1. Ethical Considerations

Gestational surrogacy raises ethical questions around the potential exploitation of women's bodies. It is important to ensure that all parties involved are fully informed and have given their informed consent to the process. Moreover, it is important to consider the potential impact on the child and to have plans in place for disclosure and communication regarding their origins.

It is never acceptable for a woman to feel that they are being pressured into a decision to becoming a surrogate.  Her wonderful decision to help another family bring a life into the world is a life changing blessing.  Her decision should be done of her own free will without any outside pressures even from her partner or family.

2. Financial Considerations

Surrogacy involves signification financial considerations including medical, legal, travel, insurance, and other expenses.  Some of the common fees include:

  • Legal Fees
  • Agency Fees
  • Surrogate's Insurance
  • Surrogate's base compensation
  • Medical out of pocket expenses
  • Medical travel fees
  • Escrow expenses
  • ...

Proper estimating and planning ensure success without any unexpected financial surprises.  Heart and Soul surrogacy will help you understand all the various expenses and plan for your successful journey.

3. Legal Considerations

It is important to consult with an attorney who specializes in reproductive law to understand the legal implications of gestational surrogacy in your state.   Surrogacy laws vary by each state and change frequently.  A knowledgeable attorney is necessary to help you navigate the entire process.

The legal process includes:

  • Drafting of a surrogacy agreement that outlines the rights and responsibilities of all parties involved. 
  • Parental right assignments
  • Insurance coverage
  • Birth certificates.
  • ...

Your surrogacy agency and a specialized attorney will work with you to cover all aspects of the surrogacy journey and ensure a stress-free journey.

4. Medical Considerations

Gestational surrogacy involves various medical procedures for both the intended parents and the surrogate.  Examples include IVF (in vitro fertilization), egg donation, infectious disease testing, drug testing, phycological screening and many others.

 It is important to choose a reputable fertility clinic with experience in surrogacy and to ensure that all parties have access to adequate medical care throughout the process.

5.Emotional Considerations

Gestational surrogacy is an emotional journey for all parties involved. It is important to have open and honest communication about expectations, boundaries, and feelings throughout the process. Intended parents may experience feelings of loss and grief, while the surrogate may experience physical and emotional challenges during the pregnancy. It is important to have support systems available such as counseling and support groups, to help navigate the emotional aspects of the journey.

Choosing the Right Agency

The surrogacy process is lengthy and complicated. Select a reputable surrogacy agency that you feel comfortable working with throughout the process. Let Heart and Soul Surrogacy help you navigate this process so you can focus on the important things like family and preparing for your new addition to your family!

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